Today we are going to learn about how the melanaus address members in their family.
First of all here is a basic word list:
English | Malay | Melanau |
Father | Ayah | Tama |
Mother | Emak | Tina |
Son | Anak lelaki | Aneak lai |
Daughter | Anak Perempuan | Aneak mahou |
Grandfather | Datuk | Tipou lai |
Grandmother | Nenek | Tipou mahou |
Grandson | Cucu lelaki | Sou lai |
Granddaughter | Cucu perempuan | Sou mahou |
Brother | Abang | Akak* |
Sister | Kakak | Akak* |
Uncle | Bapa Saudara | Tuak |
Aunt | Emak Saudara | Tebusou |
Cousin | Sepupu | Jipou |
nephew | Anak Saudara ( Lelaki) | Naken lai |
niece | Anak Saudara ( Perempuan) | Naken mahou |
firstborn | Anak Sulung | Apah tika lalu |
lastborn | Anak Bongsu | Apah tadei lalu |
adopted child | Anak Angkat | Aneak Ihou |
stepchild | Anak Tiri | Aneak Tiheak |
* the word sister and brother are the same in melanau: akak.
It is not same as kakak (malay for sister)
Form of address in a melanau family:
One addresses his or her mother: Inak or Sinak ( English: mum or mama )
One addresses his or her father: Apak or Ma or Sema ( English: dad or papa )
One addresses his or her grandmother: Mak Nek or Mak Ayeng ( English: Nana or Grandma)
One addresses his or her grandfather: Pak Nek or Apak Ayeng ( English: Grandpa )
If one addresses his or her uncles or aunts, it should be according to the order of birth:
- Firstborn: Wa
- 2nd Born: Anjang
- 3rd child or Middle Child: Angah or Ngah
- Others that are younger than the middle child: Cik
- 2nd to lastborn: Udak
- lastborn: Usu
The address form can be used for both uncle and aunt. For example:
Aunt Marie ( 1st born) = Wa Marie
Uncle Sam ( 1st born) = Wa Sam
Aunt Emily ( 4th born ) = Cik Emily
Uncle John ( 4th born) = Cik John
Among siblings (Janeak, adik beradik) there are no specific address form. Normally first name or nickname will be used.
Special case: Suffix of -m. ( Imbuhan Akhiran -m)
Tama, Tina, Tipou, Tebusou have special 2nd person possessive form.
Tina:
Your mother = Tinam and NOT Tina nou ( nou means your )
Eg:
Gan tinam? - Where is your mother?
Tama:
Your father = Tamam and NOT Tama nou
Eg:
Gan tamam? - Where is your father?
Tipou:
Your grandfather = Tipum lai and NOT Tipou lai nou
Eg:
Gan tipum lai? - Where is your grandfather?
Your grandmother = Tipum mahou and NOT Tipou mahou nou
Eg:
Gan tipum mahou? - Where is your grandmother?
Tebusou:
Your aunt = Tebusum and NOT Tebusou nou
Eg:
Gan tebusum? - Where is your aunt?
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Learn Melanau
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